Thursday, September 11, 2008

I thank my brain.

My daughter and I had a disagreement ( this is probably the beginning of things to come...she is only a couple of months away from turning four!!!). She said "Amma you are the great bad girl" . It was probably her best pick in her derogatory vocabulary to describe how she felt about me. I think she was trying to say "the worst".  I probably enraged her when instead of being offended i burst out laughing. I just couldn't help it.

Amazing how the brain develops language skills. A year ago when she had just joined pre-KG the teacher remarked on her poor grasp of the English language ( Tamil is our mother tongue). Now she is in LKG and her teacher appreciates her story telling abilities( completely in english, enacted and with sound effects I believe). Just a year and such a huge difference. 

My 20 month old son rushes to me one day and says "Push" in a complaining tone . I ask him "who pushed you?". He dramatically says "Akka" . The following day they were apparently playing the same rough games and he comes running once again. This time he says" Amma, akka push". I thought that was an impressive progress over a day. From a single word he had learnt to frame his sentence.

My daughter loves music and I play a lot of music too especially Hindi music. I find her picking up a new language thanks to the tracks playing in the background. She pays attention to the songs she specially likes and stops me in between asking for the meaning of the key words to understand what the musician means. The next time she hears it , she promptly comes up to me and reminds me of the meaning!!!

On the other hand, when i read, hear or come across people with memory loss related illnesses I feel so bad and helpless.  I was shocked to learn about memory loss related illnesses that can make you forget basic things such as turning off the tap or even opening a door! The very same brain that had years ago performed amazingly can just decide to take a break and totally break down our life!

In this whole process I find it very fascinating how the human brain has the amazing power to learn and to then sadly forget how much we have actually worked to get to where we are today! 
Lets just appreciate ourselves for all what we are, what we know, even the simple everday activities and say "Thank you brain!!".